Welcome to Elsker Lab.

 

Founded in 2025, I provide 1:1 Coaching support at the times in your life when things can feel tangled or overwhelming. You need a way forward, but can't clearly visualise that. Your problem solving skills aren't moving you forward, and nor is advice. This is when I can help you. 

 

I am trained in several evidence-based Coaching skills, including Positive Psychology. My approach is integrative, holistic and personalised. With my 30+ years of experience as a GMC licensed doctor you are in safe hands with me.

 

As a specialist occupational physician, I already work at the interface of personal and organisational wellbeing, across multiple sectors, and with individuals at all levels (C-Suite, leaders, academics, managers, headteachers, HR partners and front-line staff). This gives me a cross-section view of various workplace cultures providing context on the system issues all individuals navigate at work. 

 

I believe that we are all a "work in progress." Thriving instead of surviving at work is possible and whilst retaining your work/life balance. Having directly assisted thousands of individuals in my work to date, there is not much that I have not seen, heard or facilitated. I have also sat on both sides of the metaphorical "table," having overcome my own life, work and health challenges.  Coaching support has worked for me at various life stages, and it can work for you, too.

 

If any of this resonates with you, don't hesitate to book your free (no commitment) introduction call with me, using the form below.  

 

Warmest regards,

 

Eva

Founder of Elsker Lab

From tangled thoughts
to focus
to analytical and creative thinking
to glimpsing what is possible
with the right level of challenge
building on strengths and first steps
Coaching with Meaning makes it all become clearer for you!

You:

  • are a high achieving professional
  • UK-based
  • mid-life stage
  • feel overwhelmed, have decision fatigue, or scatttered focus
  • juggle several roles; have long term and/or serious health; have life challenges/feel like the "rug has been pulled from under you" 
  • you are considering making significant changes to your your career and/or life to improve things
  • and you wish to find a safe coaching space to think and facilitate you to move forward with clarity, purpose and meaning.

Whilst specialising in the above client needs, if you are 18 or over, and any part of what I offer here resonates with you, then do contact me. I would be happy to discuss how I might be able to assist or to signpost you as needed.

 

If you aren't sure what coaching is, or how it differs from therapy, have a look here.

 

If you want examples of how coaching can help in various situations, click here (weblink under construction).

We:

 

This is where the magic happens! We start by agreeing how the coaching sessions will run, to meet your needs.

 

At some point I will ask "What would it mean to you to gain the outcome you seek?" or a variation of that. This single question is very powerful, yet missing from most of the mainstream coaching models. This is what my tagline of "Coaching for Meaning" refers to. It connects us to our purpose and motivation.

 

We can also consider "Meaning" in a broader sense to help reconnect you to your underplayed/overplayed

  • Strengths
  • Values/virtues
  • Drivers

These in turn, can serve as your compass through frequent volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous (VUCA) situations. A virtuous cycle can then result, by reconnecting you with your Meaningful Purpose, as needed.

 

Whilst not shying away from this relatively "heavy stuff" we can also keep things light, playful and creative.

 

My approach can build your self-coaching skills in the future. We are equals in our shared coaching space; as such I won't be acting as your mentor, adviser, guru, nor will I seek to build your dependency on me. Success is when you fly independently.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Elsker Lab and me:

  • Born in Denmark, I have lived in the UK most of my life.
  • "Elsker" is Danish for "love" and is also a remnant from my dormant Danish vocabulary. 
  • "Love" is also my top strength measured using  VIA Character Strengths
  • In my professional life, I use this strength to create small meaningful connections with others. More importantly, by facilitating others to make and notice those meaningful connections day to day and within themselves, this is when real progress can happen for them.
  • "Lab" reflects the "science-y" part of my brain!  
  • Coaching is the best way (that I know of) to facilitate individuals to connect with the answers that already exist within them, yet might felt elusive whilst actively seeking externally for those answers.
  • I love working in creative ways to help you to
    • generate new ideas and new connections between your ideas
    • notice and respect those "in between" spaces and gaps; to explore what - if anything - needs to be done with those and/or how to create more of those spaces
    • set your direction and next steps
    • acknowledge your progress and reflect on that, building your self-compassion and self-efficacy along the way
Testimonials/feedback...
As a coach ..."calm, confident... epiphany, cathartic..."
As a doctor "...I very much appreciate Dr D'Souza's pragmatic and supportive approach, and am extremely grateful that she was able to see me today."
"...I would like to thank Dr D'Souza for making me feel comfortable and listening..."
"...A huge thank you to Dr D’Souza for her caring support..."

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Location:

I offer video calls using Whats App. If you live in the Henley on Thames/ RG9 area, I can offer 1:1 walking sessions as well/instead. 

 

Prices:

***SPECIAL OFFER ***(and for a limited period only)

  • FREE: A block of THREE one hour coaching sessions, fortnightly and per client. For a limited number of clients (first come, first served). 
  • In return, I will invite you to donate to my Just Giving Page, for Cancer Research UK; even donating a small token amount would be fantastic! I will also request a testimonial and feedback from you as I build the necessary coaching practice hours, to gain my Diploma certificate in Transformational Coaching from  Your Coaching Journey 

Standard Price list:

  • Find my Thread: a one hour session = £140
  • The Untangle Challenge: block of three x 1 hour sessions = £380
  • (Check back soon for my further programs in development)